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50 Years

August 23, 2010

50 Years

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On Sunday, the entire Zielske family and a host of relatives and friends gathered in Southern Minnesota (North Morristown, to be precise) to celebrate Dan's parents' 50th wedding anniversary.

Joan and Dan wanted to celebrate at home on their 100-plus-year-old farm and all of the siblings and wives and husbands and significant others helped to take care of the details to make it happen.

The farm looked simply pastoral:

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The weather was cooperative, if not a shade on the sticky side, and the good predominantly German Lutheran guests ate pasta salads, drank their ice cold beers and mingled under the shade of a giant white tent.

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There I am with my lovely (and much tanner than me) sisters-in-law, Deb, Joy and Anne.

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There's me with my dashing better half.

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And there, of course, is Cole with a llama.

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But that's a story for another day…

The real story was celebrating 50 years of marriage. I've talked about my in-laws from time to time here on my blog. Dan has been a preacher for his entire adult life, retired now, but still stepping in for pastors here and there who need a fill in. Joan, aside from being a teacher and raising 6 kids, is also an accomplished organist, and has spent many a Sunday playing for the congregations to whom Dan has preached.

The siblings decided to put together a short program to honor Joan and Dan, and provide a little entertainment for the guests. We all worked on adding some Joan-and-Dan-specific lyrics to well known TV-theme show songs. From Gilligan's Island to The Brady Bunch, we worked our Zielske magic to bring some wide smiles to our guest of honor's faces.

I didn't even think to have someone film us singing. Aidan had the photography covered (she took all of the photos you see on this blog post, which explains why she's not showing up in any!) But Cole decided to film the last of our four songs using his new birthday camera. Way to go, Cole!

We tailored our various songs to different times in Joan and Dan's lives. The Gilligan's Island song covered their courting, marriage, and diving into parenthood. The Brady Bunch song covered life with 7 people. The Love Boat song covered Joan and Dan's years as foster parents. And the last song, the theme from All in the Family, was hoping to cover their influence, their service, and their legacy.

Joan and Dan don't do a lot of horn tooting, but they have spent countless hours of their lives in service to others. One simple example? They've gone down to Mississippi and Louisiana, not once, but several times since Katrina, and they are still helping people rebuild their homes and lives. This is part of their passion for life and it's inspiring. It's just what they do and who they are.

With that, I leave you with our short but sweet version of "Those Were the Days"…Zielske-style.

(My sincere apologies to Jean Stapleton.)

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  1. Tess says

    August 23, 2010 at 5:15 am

    Adore!

    My folks are celebrating their 50th in May — and reading your post got my wheels turning.

    Not to mention that they look so good, and what amazing people. Thanks for sharing just a snip of their story. Inspiring!!!

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  2. Jeanne Pellerin says

    August 23, 2010 at 5:23 am

    Just lovely!

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  3. MichelleG says

    August 23, 2010 at 5:46 am

    Wonderful milestone for a lovely couple! Sounds like a fun celebration!

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  4. Kendra B says

    August 23, 2010 at 6:49 am

    Fantastic!!

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  5. Bec_Kilgore says

    August 23, 2010 at 7:03 am

    Thank you for sharing. Such an inspiring couple.

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  6. mary dawn q says

    August 23, 2010 at 7:04 am

    you ain’t right! and i love that about you LOL

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  7. c@rol w says

    August 23, 2010 at 7:42 am

    When I first looked at the photo of Cole and the llama, I got a chuckle because it looked like the llama had a unicorn horn! LOL Are you sure that’s not a unillama??? llamacorn?? unillamacorn? (Obviously, it’s early and I need more sleep!)

    God bless your inlaws… that’s awesome… 50 years. 🙂

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  8. sidney20852@verizon.net says

    August 23, 2010 at 7:52 am

    I love your blog!

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  9. judy in huntsville al says

    August 23, 2010 at 8:51 am

    how fun!! Thanks for sharing and congrats to them for 50 years of marriage – we’ve been blessed to see both sides of our family celebrate 50. wow.

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  10. Lisa Baker says

    August 23, 2010 at 8:53 am

    awww I love this. Cole did a fantastic JOB of catching that for you! I can’t wait to hear the llama story!

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  11. Kay Gregory-Clark says

    August 23, 2010 at 9:13 am

    What fun! Reminds me of the party I went to yesterday for my friend’s 80th birthday. Her kids are very creative and created song parodies too, along with a HUGE collage printed on canvas and framed and many other wonderful things. Isn’t it great to belong to such creative families and groups of friends? Love the pic of Cole and the llama—waiting for the story and why he looked so pained!

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  12. RobynS says

    August 23, 2010 at 9:13 am

    Looks like you had a wonderful day. A “Golden” day. What a milestone. I always put down a song for the day in my Nike notes and today it was – Let’s Stay Together – Al Green. Appropriate for your post. (BTW – saw you on the 50+ challenge. I love doing these challenges. I signed up for the states challenge too.)

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  13. Vickie says

    August 23, 2010 at 10:05 am

    Wonderful! I’d love to hear more or at the very least read the words to the other songs. And whoever was doing the “Jean” did a great job.

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  14. Kasandra Mathieson says

    August 23, 2010 at 10:35 am

    Cathy….what a beautiful post, thanks for sharing your life and your family with us! Tell Aidan and Cole they did a stupendous job on capturing the moments….the apple doesn’t fall far from the tree! lol.

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  15. {vicki} says

    August 23, 2010 at 11:15 am

    Congratson 50 years!

    LOVED the video!!!!!!!

    an’t wait to hear the llama story

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  16. kristen says

    August 23, 2010 at 11:18 am

    Oh wow…I have a lump in my throat. They must have been thrilled. I love fun families!

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  17. Lourdes says

    August 23, 2010 at 12:14 pm

    That was freaking awesome!! I loved it along with the sounds of the laughter and great smiles.

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  18. Christine Campbell says

    August 23, 2010 at 12:30 pm

    Awww Cathy, that’s sooo sweet and too cute!!! Great idea too!! My grandparents’ 60th is next year. It would be nice to come up with something fun like that to do for them. Congrats to your inlaws!!!

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  19. Jenell says

    August 23, 2010 at 12:32 pm

    Congrats to Joan and Dan on their 50 years together. Wonderful – just wonderful. And what else was wonderful? ? ? That tribute song. Loved it.

    And what is another wonderful thing you ask? That farm!!! That’s where I want to go when I’m married 50 years!! (16 more years to go)

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  20. Amanda says

    August 23, 2010 at 1:06 pm

    Adorable! congratulations to an amaZing family!

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  21. Maureen says

    August 23, 2010 at 1:57 pm

    Just beautiful…bringing tears to my eyes.

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  22. Jennifer says

    August 23, 2010 at 2:03 pm

    What a wonderful tribute to your in-laws! Great job of celebrating 50 years and lots of love! Thanks for sharing with us.

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  23. Kirsten says

    August 23, 2010 at 3:33 pm

    That was just too darn awesome! What a family! And a *rawkin* Jean Stapleton immitation too.

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  24. heidig says

    August 23, 2010 at 3:43 pm

    Wonderful! Congratulations Mr. & Mrs. Zielske!

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  25. Nancy says

    August 23, 2010 at 4:17 pm

    Love the good German Lutheran harmonizing at the end of the song. Congratulations to the Rev and Mrs Z. I love to hear stories like this.

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  26. Trude says

    August 23, 2010 at 6:05 pm

    Congrats to them! I can’t think of a more perfect way to celebrate. 🙂

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  27. Kate says

    August 23, 2010 at 6:15 pm

    The good German Lutheran harmonizing got me, too. lol! That was simply amazing. The song, the video, everything. Thanks for sharing!

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  28. Sabrina says

    August 23, 2010 at 6:22 pm

    What a great legacy to all future Zielskes!! Sounds like a wonderful celebration. Kudos to Aidan for the beautiful photos, and way to go Cole!! Truly a family affair 🙂

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  29. Rachel Smith says

    August 23, 2010 at 7:26 pm

    Cole is looking so much like a pre-teen!!

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  30. Susan Bowers says

    August 23, 2010 at 8:32 pm

    Oh my congratulations to pass on! I get goose bumps when I hear about longevity marriages. Truly inspiring! This year would have been my parent’s 50th too but my dad passed in April so I know the feeling of awe and celebration.

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  31. Barb says

    August 23, 2010 at 9:59 pm

    I love this post… the photos, the song captured on video, the gardens, the llama, the stories of a truly impressive couple… your kids with cameras… the love. You are truly blessed, Cathy.

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  32. Shirley says

    August 23, 2010 at 10:24 pm

    Snif..snif..this is what life is all about! Congrats to Dan’s wonderful parents!

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  33. Donna says

    August 24, 2010 at 8:59 am

    Wow 50 years?! That is great!! CONGRATULATIONS to Rev and Mrs. Z! The video… I LOVE IT!!!

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  34. Debbie P says

    August 24, 2010 at 12:51 pm

    Fantastic song! You guys were very clever! Love it. Congrats to them! tfs

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  35. amy j. says

    August 24, 2010 at 4:23 pm

    Congrats on 50!! When my husband’s parents reached that milestone I remember thinking, “Wow, that’s a LONG time to put up with another person.” LOL

    But I aspire…only 30 more to go for me and my ole man, lol.

    I adore that first photo that Aidan took. In years to come that will be a much treasured photo. My father in law passed away a year and a half ago, so I can attest to how very special these types of photos are. What a wonderful family!

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  36. Dar says

    August 25, 2010 at 9:16 am

    Cole has inspired me to grab that Flip camera more often and take some videos of my dear family. I’m SO glad your family is not camera-shy. Think of the moments we’d miss if they insisted, “I hate having my picture taken,” or “I don’t know what to say. Put the video cam down.” (Do you hear me, Mom?)

    And 50 years together is indeed something to celebrate. God bless you all.

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  37. tracee says

    August 25, 2010 at 10:44 am

    What a wonderful inspiration they are. The beautiful garden photos make me feel a little homesick though 🙁

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  38. Claire says

    August 25, 2010 at 12:33 pm

    Excellent song! Love it!

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  39. Diane Herrington says

    August 26, 2010 at 12:56 pm

    What a beautiful family and what a blessing to have your inlaws – healthy and happy. They sound like wonderful people

    diane

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