The new year is just a week old and I wanted to do a check in on the self-care front and the check in looks like this: I’m here. I’m showing up. I’m continuing to do what is needed.
A year ago I was a little scared. With my first ever health issue showing up (high blood pressure), I really didn’t know if I could do it. And by ‘do it,’ I just mean show up and do better.
Better to me would mean two things: 1) not having to go on medication to control my blood pressure, and 2) be responsible for my overall care and feeding.
I was okay with my body. I was feeling fine in my skin. I was in a place where I was doing a lot more work on the inner me, and the reality is (and I tell my Fit students this as often as possible) my body and how it looks is literally the least interesting thing about me.
But I wasn’t okay with not trying to make some changes and see if I could right the ship and avoid medication.
I wasn’t really expecting to lose a lot of weight, but lose a lot of weight is exactly what happened last year. As a post-menopausal woman, I was kind of shocked.
What did I do to lose it? Well, I gave up most junk food, most alcohol, most gluten and as much sugar as I could suss out of my diet. I say most because nothing was completely off limits, but my choices were mostly guided from day to day on those parameters.
And of course, I chose real, whole foods for my diet. Real fats, real meats, real carbs (hello veggies!) and kicked most of the processed stuff to the curb.
The thing is, eating like this is actually how I can show my body real love. And when I mostly do this, I mostly feel pretty competent to handle this job. My job.
One thing you’ll notice here? I didn’t do this through exercise. I had a knee injury last year and because it hampered my efforts to work out, I was limited to walking and some strength training, but nothing Herculean. It was extremely eye opening for me to realize exercise and food can actually have separate tracks in what they do for our bodies.
My goal in 2020 is to get back into doing some really simple core strengthening and getting my body back into the swimming pools for some great joint-friendly cardio. That, and simply staying the course.
What I’m doing is presently sustainable. In the past (and yes, I have been up, down and all around the bend on this stuff), I have tried approaches that were more about deprivation this and low-fat that, and in the end, I was just hungry. All the time.
I’m not about that anymore. I love food and love to cook and love to eat. But I make choices that are smarter and this is what I want to continue doing in 2020.
People ask me if Fit can help them make the needed changes in their lives and my answer is qualified: yes, if you connect to what you really need. You know? We track the story for ourselves in class, but it’s simply exploring what you need for optimum health. Not every day is perfect. Not every loss is a gain. And vice versa.
The other part of it is this: if you’re ready to be fully responsible for your self-care, you will have a better chance of making changes. Attitude is a critical part of this process. It’s my job. It’s your job.
It’s a no-drama job, as well. There’s no drama when you do what’s needed. No need to feel sad or bad or hopeless. You wake up, dust off, and do your best, and leave the judgments behind.
The reality that you can change everything all at once? That’s not really sustainable. But… taking steps to explore what could be is key to moving in a healthier direction.
That’s really what Fit is about for 2020.
Like I said, 2020 is off to a good start. Stay tuned…
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